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Hazing in Nursing: The Cost of Breaking In

The hardest part of your first year often isn’t the work.
It’s how you’re treated while you’re doing it.

Some new nurses call it “paying your dues.”
Others call it “sink or swim.”
I call it what it is—a quiet hazing that leaves too many good nurses questioning if they belong.

In this week’s post, I’m sharing:

  • What hazing in nursing actually looks like today (it’s not always obvious)

  • Real stories from nurses who’ve been through it

  • How to recognize the signs early—and protect yourself without burning bridges

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The Truth About Your First Two Years as a Nurse (That No One Tells You in School)

You’re wondering if this is what nursing is supposed to feel like.

Nursing school didn’t prepare you for this part.
The part where it’s not just about clinicals or care plans.
It’s about you — your body, your mind, your identity — being stretched in ways no textbook ever warned you about.

No one talks about how disorienting the first two years can be.
So that’s what we’re going to do here.

Not to scare you.
But to show you: if you’re struggling, you’re not failing. You’re not broken. You’re not alone.
You’re just walking through the part that no one talks about — until now.

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Disaster Nursing for NCLEX Students and New Nurses

Weather emergeny or man-made disaster? We talk a lot about how to prioritize care in theory—but in a disaster, theory goes out the window. Resources are limited. Emotions run high. And decisions get very real, very fast. This isn’t a test. This is disaster nursing.

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How Nursing Pioneers Inspire Change Today

Discover how nursing pioneers like Szold, Wald, and Mahoney shaped healthcare—and how their stories inspire today’s nurses to advocate for respect, equity, and excellence.

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Rhoda Sommer RN. MSN. founder of One on One NCLEX Tutoring LLC

Insight kits: What is in them, Rhoda?

So, I have written down for each side what is in the insight kit for Friday, May 3, and through to the following Friday: If at any time after you paid for the subscription and you feel like you are not getting your money’s worth, let me know what you would like help on

NCLEX STUDENT

Flyer for NCLEX students offering meditation tips, study groups, 50% off clothing with Bella Rose offers, and a free Home Health Care class. Includes contact details for scheduling with Rhoda for NCLEX prep and Bella Rose's community info-session on healthcare topics like safety and homecare.

New Nurses

Flyer titled "New Nurse Insight Kit Items" with details on meditation, mentoring sessions, and a conflict resolution webinar. It mentions free access to Bella Rose offers, a home health care class, and picmonics. Contact emails are provided for scheduling.